Self-Confidence Self-confidence helps us to manifest our desires. This means that we have to develop trust in ourselves. Oxford Languages describes self-confidence in this way; "A feeling of trust in one's abilities, qualities and, judgments". The University of South Florida says, "It is an attitude about your skills and abilities. It means you accept yourself and have a sense of control in your life. Self-confidence impacts almost every area of...
What is the Difference Between Shame and Guilt? The difference between shame and guilt is both deep and often disturbing. They also have different affects on us. Put simply, shame says, "I am bad", whereas guilt says, "I have done something bad". Shame Shame is often about self-hate. It is an attitude of criticism that effects us mentally and emotionally. Often times, it is crippling and completely destructive to how we function in our...
Law of Attraction, Focus Only on What you Want The Law of Attraction uses your feelings, that cause vibrations, to manifest things into your life experiences. If your thoughts are feel good thoughts, you are emitting a feel good vibration. This is the time to ask for what you want. The longer you can hold on to feeling good, the stronger your vibrations become. God thoughts draw more good thoughts into...
It's OK to Say No I Often Said "yes" When I Wanted to Say "no" The Importance of Saying "No". There Are Times When it is Your Responsibility to Say "Yes". Why is it so Difficult to Say "No"? Knowing How to Say "No". What You Can Do. My Point is. I Often Said "Yes" When I Wanted to Say "No" I often said "yes" when I wanted to say no, that is until covid hit our little planet. Yes, I am saying thank you to COVID 19, there are two sides...
Why do we Compare Ourselves to Others? Stop Comparing Yourself Meeting new People Stop comparing yourself to others. Why indeed, do we compare ourselves to others? I have decades worth of experience with comparing myself to others. Consequently, I think I have a pretty good idea where it comes from. One memory I have, comes from a very young age, elementary school, if my memory is correct. I was jealous of my brother because he...
There is no Love in Manipulation. There is no love in manipulation because it is a vicious act that people use to get their own way. Manipulation, is way of getting others to do for us what we want them to do, in a sneaky, nasty and /or aggressive manner. All of us are vulnerable to the manipulator and we may, in fact be the manipulators in our relationships. We need to know and understand the traits of the...