Why You Need to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

Why do we Compare Ourselves to Others?   Stop Comparing Yourself Meeting new People   Stop comparing yourself to others. Why indeed, do we compare ourselves to others? I have decades worth of experience with comparing myself to others. Consequently, I think I have a pretty good idea where it comes from. One memory I have, comes from a very young age, elementary school, if my memory is correct. I was jealous of my brother because he...

What Are The Dangers of Gossiping?

            How Is Gossip Defined? The dangers of gossiping are clear in this definition. Oxford Languages defines gossip as "a casual or unconstrained conversation or reports about other people. Typically involving details that are not confirmed as being true".     Admitting to Gossiping Spreading Lies   Time to admit that I gossip with one person. I am having a difficult time stopping this horrible habit. I'm getting...

Be Aware of how Damaging Your Ego can be to Yourself and to Your Relationships

  Be Aware of how Damaging Your Ego can be to Yourself and to Your Relationships              jeffspeaks     Ego Defined Be Aware of Your Ego Ego is our minds way of defining who we are and is seen as a false identity. Ego is defined as the I or self. According to @dictionary.cambridge.com, it is defined as your idea or opinion of yourself. Especially feelings of your own importance and ability. Therefore, be aware of your...

Why we Feel Anger Towards Those we Love. Part 1

    Is There Room for Anger in a Loving Relationship?   Feeling anger towards those we love is not always a good idea. It is also a difficult topic to discuss. However, it is part of our human reality. But is there room for anger in love? Yes and no, anger is a human emotion, so yes, of course we get angry at times. It is normal to feel angry at our loved ones. Anger can range from slight irritation to full blown rage. Many things can...

Ego Behaves Like a Spoiled Child Part 2

      Ego Behaves Like a Spoiled Child and Says, "I Want" and "I Need".   "I want" and "I need" are typically the desires of spoiled children wanting their own way. This is a discussion about the intentions of the ego. It describes what happens when we put love and others above the ego. Ego is selfish, as a result, it wants and needs for itself. However, when we are free from ego, we want to do and be for others as well as...

Ego Behaves Like a Spoiled Child. Part 1

        Ego Cares for Self Self-Esteem vs Ego An Egoistic Personality Behaves Like a Spoiled Child The Altruistic Personality   Ego Cares For Self. Ego cares for self and says, "I want it and I want it now"!  I believe "ego" only plays a small role in getting us motivated to do things in life. I am not convinced that ego deserves much credit and think about the ego as a spoiled child. It is forever trying to put its...