Families and Love

Love is a serious issue and special care is needed to cultivate it and to keep it growing

Month: March 2010

Ego Behaves Like a Spoiled Child. Part 1

        Ego Cares for Self Self-Esteem vs Ego An Egoistic Personality Behaves Like a Spoiled Child The Altruistic Personality   Ego Cares For Self. Ego cares for self and says, "I want it and I want it now"!  I believe "ego" only plays a small role in getting us motivated to do things in life. I am not convinced that ego deserves much credit and think about the ego as a spoiled child. It is forever trying to put its...

Self-Love. Part 2

Self-Love is a sign to others what you expect from them. It teaches them how to love you. Self-Love Allows us to be Free. Self-love allows us to be free, therefore we no longer focus on what others or what society says about us. We are free to be who and what we are, and it allows us to develop a sense of self worth. We understand how that feels and we are more apt to love others and accept love in return. As we learn to love ourselves, we are...

Self-Love. Part 1

Self-Love is Essential Not Selfish. We should all know that self-love is essential, not selfish. It is indeed needed, if we hope to have the capacity to love others. The old cliché suggests we cannot love others until we love ourselves, however, I do not completely agree. I have to admit that I understand the concept of love much better, now that I love myself. It's no longer a need for others to love me like it used to be. If someone does not...

How to Repair a Broken Friendship

  ♥ This Post is a Discussion About Broken Friendships and How to Repair Them. ♥ Questions to Ask  Yourself. ♥ Communication Will Help You to Repair Your Broken Friendship.  ♥ Friendship is a Wonderful Gift. ♥ I Developed a Friendship That I Thought Would Last Forever. This Post is a Discussion About Broken Friendships and How to Repair Them. This post is a discussion about broken friendships. One should know if the...

Love and Friendship Plus15 Highlights of a Perfect Friendship

    The Joys of Friendship. The joys of friendship are all about loyalty, sharing, honesty, laughter, trust and so much more. It is about never taking your friendship for granted. A list of 15 highlights of a perfect friendship is included. Oh, the joys of friendships, the long lasting kind. You know, the friend you can say anything to, you know you can, because this friend will not tell anyone else what you just told her and never...

Communication and Miscommunication. The Difficulties That Arise.

 Communication and Miscommunication A Focus on Communication. Communication and miscommunication are often difficult to master. Therefore, I would like to focus on communication with family, friends and our significant other. Relationships are hard work; however, if we know how to communicate in an effective and loving manner, the challenge diminishes significantly. Learn to communicate with others and the importance of recognizing...

How to Recognize an Unhealthy Relationship

Focus on the Unhealthy Relationship     As I focus on the unhealthy relationship I realize there is so much more to this this topic. I want to focus a little bit more on those realities. So many families get hurt because they are so focused on "self". They cannot put their relationships in focus. I am not a counsellor but I can see when families are hurting. It is usually because people are not healthy enough, or in fact mature...