How to Repair a Broken Friendship

 

This Post is a Discussion About Broken Friendships and How to Repair Them.
Questions to Ask  Yourself.
Communication Will Help You to Repair Your Broken Friendship. 
Friendship is a Wonderful Gift.
I Developed a Friendship That I Thought Would Last Forever.

This Post is a Discussion About Broken Friendships and How to Repair Them.

This post is a discussion about broken friendships. One should know if the relationship is worth saving. We can begin to repair the friendship using communication. For instance, we can ask questions in order to establish if the relationship is worth working on. In addition, we should consider ending a relationship that is no longer beneficial to us.

How to Mend a Broken Friendship

 Questions to Ask Yourself.

 We should consider asking these 6 questions in order to help us decide if the relationship is worth the work;

How long have we been friends?
Has it been a good relationship so far?
How has being friends benefited my life?
Is this friend trustworthy?
Will I truly miss this friend if I walk away and never look back?
Has this relationship already served its purpose?

 

Communication Will Help You to Repair Your Broken Friendship.

Communication will help to repair your friendship if you find yourself wanting to heal the rift between you. Here are a few ideas about how to begin the process;
Initiate conversation as soon as possible.
Focus on the issue at hand, and don’t bring in issues that are in the past. 
Keep your anger at bay and try to keep calm, you don’t have to scream to get your point across.
Do not bring others into the discussion, especially not for a back up to help you make your point.
Be polite and listen with the intent to understand.
If you cannot face your friend face to face, call her, write her, but it is always better to be face to face to reduce any further misunderstandings.

 

Friendship is a Wonderful Thing.

We need to treasure our friendships as they are a wonderful gift. Friendships that are handled with care, can last a lifetime. However, some of our friendships only last a short time. They come to serve a purpose in our lives. Both parties should consider moving on once that purpose has been completed. We will probably know when it is time to let go of one another. Therefore, I think it is important to treasure the time we have together. Having said that, I think it is a good idea to move on if the friendship is no longer working. Nevertheless, I suggest that you try to know for sure if the friendship is truly finished before you shut the door on it.

I developed a friendship that I thought would last for ever. We were together every day, shared everything, and we were inseparable. We somehow drifted apart, the friendship just served its purpose and gradually dissolved. It was tough at first, but I realized I was better off without her.

I knew she wasn’t the person I thought she was. I often heard her as she cut down her family members and seemed to think she was right all the time. That friendship is in the past, therefore I rarely think about her anymore. It is interesting to note, that I wouldn’t want to reconnect even if the opportunity presented itself. It’s over, although I’m glad we had the time together, it served its purpose and I’m much better off without her. Repairing this broken friendship was not worth it.

You can figure it all out, and remember, every challenge you overcome, makes you stronger and develops new growth in your life. Repairing a broken friendship, if you find is worth it, will make your life better.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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